When a scrawny, listless, dull-eyed baby is
brought to a physician and the physician pronounces, "Failure to
thrive", the parents are in trouble. "Failure to thrive"
suggests that the parents are negligent, or abusive, or psychologically
unfit, or at the very least too immature to be entrusted with a baby.
For a long time I have thought that congregations should
be far more concerned about the spiritual neo-nates among us who may fail
to thrive.
The apostles were certainly aware of the challenge. John
speaks of the need for birth. Peter adds that milk must be fed the neo-nates
if they are to develop. Then Paul tells the Christians in Thessalonica how
pleased he is that their "faith is growing abundantly."
Still, Paul isn't content to see that some believers at
least have moved from birth to infancy and beyond. Why stop with
childhood, even adolescence? The goal of his ministry, he insists, is to
proclaim Jesus Christ so as to "present every man [woman] mature in
Christ." The apostle knows that infancy in infants is fine, but
infancy in a 30-year old is tragic. Infancy in anyone except an infant is
infantilism. There is never anything commendable about infantilism. Paul
is horrified merely to think of Christians who might fail to thrive. We
must grow up!
I: -- In the first place it is
essential that we mature, says the apostle, or else we shall remain
"children, tossed to and fro and carried about with every wind of
doctrine, by the cunning of men, by their craftiness in deceitful
wiles." When he speaks of "doctrine" in this context he
doesn't mean Christian truths; he means false teaching, ideology, fads and
fancies which invariably lead people astray. Those who do not mature as
Christians are vulnerable to whatever is blowing in the wind.
Think of the newest therapy from New York. I mention New
York City only because two-thirds of the world's psychoanalysts
live in the one city. This fact does not seem to render NYC a better
mental environment. And psychoanalysis is only one of 200 recognized
schools of therapy. The 201st school is not going to be our salvation.
Only the spiritually mature will be able to ensure that whatever is
blowing in the wind isn't going to be their spiritual seduction, even
their spiritual destruction.
When I entered seminary sensitivity-training was
"all the rage". I noticed two things about fellow-candidates for
the ministry who were the keenest on sensitivity-training, "T"
groups, etc. Invariably they disdained the gospel, were ignorant of it,
and appeared to lack any experience of it. The "sensitivity" fad
had become a substitute for the gospel. In the second place they were
consistently the most insensitive people I had met. They shredded others
in class or in their "T"group, and were unconcerned that those
who had been shredded haemorrhaged emotionally for several days. Imagine
someone saying to you, "In this group today we are going to share our
most intimate experience. What, Sally, you aren't going to share your most
intimate experience with this group of strangers? You appear to have
hang-ups. Don't you trust us? Have you internalized all your mother's
inhibitions?" Then Sally's emotional haemorrhage began. The
vocabulary had to do with sensitivity; the technique was coercion; the
outcome was catastrophe.
After sensitivity-training (by now I was a
newly-ordained clergyperson) it was bio-feedback. Then it was small group
dynamics. Then third-world political leftism. (Crypto-communism had been
newly sainted by the church's left-wing "loonies".) Then it was
environmentalism. Jesus saves -- seals! But what about codfish? The
save-a-seal folks who hijacked the church didn't seem to grasp the fact
that one seal eats 22 pounds of cod per day. Why don't we admit that baby
seals were spared because seal pups have a cute face, while baby cod were
not spared because they have an ugly face, and are first cousins of
reptiles? (Have you ever wanted to cuddle a cod?)
Next it was the new-age movement. The new-age, upholding
pantheism as it does -- pantheism being the notion that God is the essence
of all that is -- conveniently lacked any understanding of evil or sin.
For the new-agers there can't be evil or sin, just because God is the
essence of everything. No sin! What a bonanza! What a convenient religion
for baby-boom yuppies! The moral disasters brought to me through the
new-age ideology you would have to hear to believe, but I am not about to
tell you.
Next it was the ridiculous extremism of wilder feminism.
It isn't the blood of Jesus that saves; now it's women's body-fluids, say
the devotees of Sophia. (Before you dismiss this you should know that The
United Church's national office sent 50-plus delegates to the last Sophia
conference.)
I am not denying that some of these groups may have had
something profound to say; I am not denying that some have had a
corrective that needed to be heard; I am not denying that some aspects of
these groups may have developed in response to deficiencies in the
church's understanding of the gospel or its embodiment of the gospel.
Nevertheless, precisely what is it that is profound? Where
is it a corrective? How has there come to be a deficiency in the
church's understanding or embodiment of the gospel? Only the spiritually
mature can answer these questions. Only the spiritually mature can resist
seduction and victimization. Only the mature can recognize the swirling
winds and resist being blown every which way.
Speaking of winds. When our more ancient foreparents
began to sail they could sail only in the direction in which the wind was
blowing. If the wind was blowing where they didn't want to go, too bad.
Either they took the sail down and drifted or they put the sail up and
were blown off course. As our more ancient foreparents became more
sophisticated sailors, however, they learned how to sail across the wind,
even how to sail against the wind. Regardless of where the wind was
blowing now, they could use the wind -- any wind -- to go where they were
supposed to go.
It is a mark of Christian maturity that we can advance,
go where we are supposed to be going, regardless of the most contrary
winds that are blowing around us. We can sail across some winds (those
winds that have something to say to us), while we sail against other winds
(those currents that we must repudiate.) Nevertheless, regardless of the
winds Christ's people are surging ahead. Only the mature can do this!
In the passage we are examining in Paul's letter to the
congregation in Ephesus he tells us that we come to "mature
manhood" as we come to "knowledge of the Son of God". Then
week-in and week-out we must be resolute in our coming to know Jesus
Christ. Otherwise maturity will escape us, and we shall be defenceless
against anything and everything that blows around us.
II: -- There is another aspect
to maturity. "Forgetting what lies behind", writes Paul to the
congregation in Philippi, "and straining forward to what lies ahead,
I press on toward the goal for the prize of the upward call of God in
Christ Jesus. Let those of us who are mature be thus minded."
"Forgetting what lies behind." The Greek word
Paul uses (eplanthanomai) means to forget not merely in the sense of lose
awareness of ("I forget where I left my umbrella"). More
importantly, the Greek verb means to forget in the sense of no longer care
about; have no interest in; can't be bothered with; have no time for;
never want to think of again. What lies behind, says the apostle, we no
longer care about, can't be bothered with, never think of. Why? Because we
are preoccupied with what lies ahead. And what lies ahead? "The prize
[reward] of the upward call of God in Christ Jesus."
I don't know if Paul had any athletic talent. I do know
he was fond of athletic images. When he speaks of "straining forward
to what lies ahead" he has in mind a sprinter in the last few feet of
a race leaning forward into the finish-line tape. The finish is only
milliseconds away. The sprinter "lets it all out" and extends
himself, leaning forward for the tape. Imagine the runner's intensity, his
concentration, his determination, his absorption. Is the crowd cheering or
booing? He doesn't hear. Is there even a crowd? He doesn't see. Is it a
hot day? He doesn't feel. Forgetting what lies behind, he is absorbed in
what lies ahead, so close to the finish-line he can almost touch it.
Speaking of forgetting what lies behind, in my boyhood
days I looked upon the Hebrew story of Lot's wife as the most stupid
narrative I had ever read. She was told not to look back at the city she
and her husband were fleeing. She stole a backward glance -- and was
"zapped" into a pillar of salt! What kind of primitive
superstition was this story about? About a whimsical deity, as cruel as he
was arbitrary, who lost his temper because someone didn't conform to a
pointless prohibition?
Now that I am old I return to the story constantly. I
know now that the prohibition wasn't pointless. Lot and his wife were
fleeing Sodom, a city on which the judgement of God had fallen, as God's
judgement inevitably falls on all of history. Why did Lot's wife look
back? Did she secretly hanker after what Sodom was about, even though what
Sodom was about had incurred God's judgement? Even if she didn't; even if
she didn't secretly hanker after Sodom's sin, her looking back meant that
she believed more about the past than she did about the future. She
thought that the past held more for her than did the future. At the very
least she sinned in resisting the summons of God toward the future. God's
people don't look back longingly just because God himself is the God of
the future! God's people look ahead! The final, full manifestation of
the kingdom of God is ahead of us. We are racing towards it! What sprinter
ever ran looking backwards?
On Easter morning several women went to the city
cemetery to deodorize a corpse. They were greeted with a word that
startled them: "He isn't here. He is risen. He is going before you to
Galilee." What we have to take home today is this: "He isn't
here.... He is going before you." We persist in looking for
Jesus Christ amidst decay and death when the only way we can meet him is
to look ahead. He is always before us, never behind us!
Lot's wife: she looked back and was petrified, frozen,
fixed forever in frustration and futility. Who wants to be fixed forever
in frustration and futility? Then we shan't look back, expecting more from
the past than we expect from the future.
Being frozen would be bad enough. What's worse in those
who keep on looking back is the metamorphosis they gradually undergo.
Those who look back persistently grieve for the past. Regret fills them.
As they continue to look back regret slowly turns into
resentment. Somebody, several somebodies, "did them dirt" back
then and now they are resentful.
As they continue to look back resentment curdles into
rancour. Rancour is through-and-through bitterness, even hatred. Now they
are full of pus and poison themselves.
As they continue to look back rancour hardens into
retribution. Now they are vindictive, and the poison inside spills outside
onto others.
Regret, resentment, rancour, retribution: from
nostalgia-grief to a sour heart to a public menace. Lot's wife was
pillared into salt she was a traffic hazard to all who, more mature than
she, were bent on moving ahead!
More mature? "One thing I do; forgetting
what lies behind and straining forward to what lies ahead, I go flat out
for the finish-line, just because my Lord and his kingdom await me
there", says the apostle, only to add, "Let those of us who are
mature be thus minded."
III: -- Let's listen as well
to the unnamed author of the epistle to the Hebrews. "Everyone who
lives on milk is unskilled in the word of righteousness, for he is a
child. But solid food is for the mature, for those who have their
faculties trained by practice to distinguish good from evil." Solid
food is needed to move people to a maturity which equips them to
distinguish good from evil.
What is more important than being equipped to
distinguish good from evil? What is more difficult? Most people assume
it's easy to distinguish good from evil; they assume that any slovenly
sleepyhead can discern evil. Quite the contrary. Evil is subtle; evil is
sophisticated; evil is blatant one instant and cleverly disguised the
next, all of which keeps us off-balance and prevents simplistic diagnoses.
Only the mature who have become mature through ingesting solid food; only
the mature are equipped in this regard.
Not only is evil both blatant and subtle, there is no
end to the complex interweaving of evil's endless dimensions. Think, for
instance, of those among us who are detained by the criminal justice
system. Recently I spoke with a clergyman, an Anglican, who moved from
being a parish priest in suburbia to a chaplain in a facility that
incarcerates young offenders. These boys (I think they should be called
"boys" rather then "men", not least because the
government has deemed them too young for trial in adult courts); these
boys have committed horrific crimes. That's why they are locked up. When
my Anglican friend began his work among them he learned something that he
hadn't found in suburbia. These boys had to be taught how and when and why
to brush their teeth; none of them had ever owned a toothbrush. More
chilling to hear (so dreadful, in fact, as to be almost unendurable), none
of the boys he met in the "young offender" prison had grown up
in a family where they had had their own bed, a bed to themselves. Not
only are these boys evildoers whose evildoing has victimized others;
plainly they are victims of evil themselves. Then should they be punished
or pitied? Are they to be punished and pitied? The criminal justice
system, however crude and imprecise it might be (it is crude and
imprecise), is the ready-to-hand instrument that has to be used in the
face of a societal emergency. But is the criminal justice system subtle
enough subsequently to assist evil-steeped youngsters who are themselves
both victims and victimizers?
Then there is the evil which strikes us (some of us) as
undeniably evil when others don't see it to be evil at all. Not so long
ago the newspapers told us of the court-decision which permits a pregnant
woman to sniff glue and continue sniffing glue regardless of the damage
done to her soon-to-be-born child. The court decided that to pronounce
against glue-sniffing in this case would infringe a woman's rights.
Lest we think that stupefying inability to sort out evil
from non-evil is found only outside the church let me tell you of
something else. I am a member of The Writers' Union of Canada, and at one
time I sat on the Rights and Freedoms Committee of The Writers' Union of
Canada. At one committee meeting we discussed an Alberta politician's
attempt at having a book banned. In the course of the discussion we were
acquainted with several attempts in Alberta to have many books banned. A
group of Christians there has sought to ban C.S. Lewis's The Lion, the
Witch and the Wardrobe on two grounds: it is anti-Christian, and it
promotes witchcraft.
It takes genuine maturity to understand what is
genuinely evil, how dimensions of evil interpenetrate, and what discerners
should do in the midst of it all.
The maturity which enables us to distinguish good from
evil is the same maturity which keeps us from being victimized by
everything that is "blowing in the wind". And of course the same
maturity will find us looking ahead to that day when discernment will no
longer be needed just because the kingdom of this world will have become
the kingdom of our God and of his Christ.
No doubt you are thinking that the sermon has ended. It
has. I cannot refrain, however from adding a postscript. From time to time
throughout my 32-year ministry I am asked to make the sermons shorter,
simpler, easier to grasp, less advanced, couched in less mature language.
I dare not. Solid food, solid food, is needed if we are ever going
to mature.
Victor Shepherd May 2002
1 Peter 2:2
2 Thessalonians 1:3
Ephesians 4:13-15*
Philippians 3:13-15*
Genesis 19:26
Mark 16:6-7
Hebrews 5:13-14*